Sunday, 23 November 2014

The Favor

The Favor was a story of FICTION. It is one of my favourite stories. But let's face it. It is guys porn. It is graphic, it is visual and direct and it is some bits are on the edge of what can really happen. I have read the complete story several times, and it never, ever occurred to me that it might be child pornography. There is probably no one in this country who condemns child porn more than yours truly.
But I don't consider either of them a child. Some boys and girls can be immature at 30, some are mature at 16. I think they do act like adults. And yes 17 year olds do have sex. And yes 17 year olds do experiment. And that is all they are doing in my opinion. Experimenting. In a safe fictional environment. People in my country are allowed to make their own decisions in this country at the age of 18, including driving a car, signing legal binding contracts, getting married.

But a few people I have great respect for, consider the story however as child pornography. The last thing I want to do is to hurt their feelings, and I'm certain I'll do just that if I keep posting. So I decided to stop posting the chapters. To those of you that do want to read the entire story, you can find it at

I apologize to those I may have offended. That was and is, never my intention.


  1. Hey Han...I don't feel as if you owe any apology. I didn't see this as 'child porn' per se but the age of the couple did make me a bit uncomfortable.

    I agree that some people are more immature at 30 than others are at 16...age does not always equal maturity. In this country, you are also considered an adult...allowed to vote, get married drive a car, etc.

    Bottom line...this is your blog and you are free to post whatever you want and people are free to read or not. ;)

    Hugs and Blessings...

    1. Well, it is porn and several people did comment the story was about children, so that makes it child porn in my book.
      Anyway, though it is my blog, I'm not posting things to offend people. "What you actually love is most truly reflected in your actions, not in what you feel, think or say."


  2. I was absolutely fascinated with the story, Han. It didn't offend me one bit as it was completely consensual. In fact, so far I have found it rather erotic. But porn? No, I don't think so - kids in the sixth form are not children these days, and I was a teacher for many many years. Two seventeen year olds experimenting are not the same thing as a 50 year old man and a 15 year old girl - now that would be underaged sex as well as porn.

    But I respect your decision to withdraw the story. I shall try to find it in order to read it to the end - then I will be able to make my mind up properly.

    I am also really enjoying your Quattuordecim challenges. So far there is only one of them I would have refused. They show a man who is romantic, very much in love with his wife, and who is enjoying making life interesting and erotic - which is what all women would like, but often dare not talk about.


    1. Thank you Ami for your nice words. But the decision to stop was real easy. I try to live the Adyashanti example: if you say you don't want to offend people you care for, don't. So if people want to read the rest of it, they can mail me or find it on

      Thank you for your comments on the challenges too. I made them and no idea I would make them public. Ahum. It shows in the next challenges ahead. There is one I'm still not certain I should replace with another envelope (nobody will notice).

      We shall see. You made me very curious what challenge you would have refused. Do you mind telling me?

      Wanita would laugh at your comments about me. I'm sure there are aspects of my character that are not so wonderful, Ami. You only see my "best" side, I think.

      But it is wonderful you took the time to comment, thank you,


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