Tuesday, 28 October 2014

Wanita

Suppose you have decided to " play" this evening, like we did some night. Outside this house. In a restaurant. When does the play actually start? At the moment you get dressed? After we leave the house? The moment we step into the car? When we arrive at the restaurant? After we are seated? If the actual transfer of power is not clear to both partners, one is already in " play mode" and the other thinks "who do you think you are?". So we needed to address this problem after a situation that had gone completely out of control.

So We thought changing her name would be the trigger. From the moment I said "Wanita" she is not my beloved equal partner anymore, but a submissive girl who needs to obey. And it worked like a charm. The other way around she just calls me "Master" with the same effect.

Wanita is used in our former colonies on the island Java, Indonesia. It means girl or woman. I like it because it is such a pretty name. So when Cat said it would be more practical to name my wife, my one true love, there was just one option.

Wanita

4 comments:

  1. A beautifull name and great idea. We will adapt it, thank you , Han.
    ML

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    1. Glad to hear it, Mona Lisa we work with this concept for quite some time now, and we had never the hassle about when to begin...

      Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it very much,

      Han

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  2. I love when everyone has a name. ;) Thank you Han.

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Would a rose be more lovely if it had any other name?

      Han

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