Monday, 20 February 2017

Hiding in his shirt

She cannot say the words. Not while he looks at her. She hides her face in his shirt and says the unspeakable. Only then she has the courage to say what she needs to say. To ask. To beg. To confess.
I love the picture. It is so familiar.

Sunday, 19 February 2017

Waiting is a form of bondage

I often have posted about the waiting pose. I recall the Nadu position as the perfect waiting pose. And I stressed sometimes the fact that ropes are not necessary, and time has it's own chain.

I like the photo, but I like the message even better.

Saturday, 18 February 2017

Bold picture

This one I have seen before somewhere, but it's so funny, each time I look at it, it makes me smile. I am not so fond of all these shaven pussies myself. I like it trimmed short, but not shaven. But that is not fashion these days.

Friday, 17 February 2017

The rooster and the kitten

I have seen some doors lately that I was in doubt what was the ladies room and what room was the gents... Some people have such creative minds that the customers can be a little confused!
But not these, it made me smile:

Thursday, 16 February 2017

After seeing fifty shades

Imagine you have seen Fifty shades of grey or just more black, and you see this friend in some bar. And this is the conversation they could have, inspired by the movie:

Wednesday, 15 February 2017


OK, the commercials are often a time to walk away from the screen to do something that has to be done. But there are some wonderful ads as well. This one I like so much, it brings a smile on my face every time I see it. It's a McDonalds ad, and it combines the music with, well, eating a burger. Have a look:

Tuesday, 14 February 2017

Like a virgin?

I made it through the wilderness
Somehow I made it through
Didn't know how lost I was
Until I found you

I was beat
I'd been had, I was sad and blue
But you made me feel
Yeah, you made me feel
Shiny and new

Hoo, like a virgin
Touched for the very first time
Like a virgin
When your heart beats
Next to mine

Gonna give you all my love, boy
My fear is fading fast
Been saving it all for you
'Cause only love can last

You're so fine
And you're mine
Make me strong, yeah you make me bold
Oh your love thawed out
Yeah, your love thawed out
What was scared and cold

Like a virgin, hey
Touched for the very first time
Like a virgin
With your heartbeat
Next to mine

Whoa, ah

You're so fine
And you're mine
I'll be yours
'Till the end of time
'Cause you made me feel
Yeah, you made me feel
I've nothing to hide

Like a virgin, hey
Touched for the very first time
Like a virgin
With your heartbeat
Next to mine

Like a virgin, ooh ooh
Like a virgin
Feels so good inside
When you hold me
And your heart beats
And you love me

Oh oh, ooh whoa

Monday, 13 February 2017


I found this and it is not my text, it's from a Sandi or she would probably prefer sandi, and it's well written. What's more, she is saying better than I can the importance of bringing down the number of rules in a D/s relation, but enforce the rules you've made. I know I have said so before but it's an important issue, that I cannot stress enough. Enough talk, sandi, the floor is yours.

If the relationship is new, it is very difficult to invest in a lot of rules when your Dom isn’t present to see and appreciate the effort you are putting into pleasing Him/Her. And by invest i mean put energy, effort and emotion into them.

i adore rules. But. Only if i’ve agreed to them and the outcome if they are broken and my Dom has done the same. And. He follows them as closely as i do.
What that means is it’s not just my rule, it’s O/our rule. We have discussed the rule and agreed on the outcome of what happens if the rule is broken and then He is just as vigilant about the rule being obeyed as i am. And if/when the rule is broken He is as invested in the agreed upon consequences as i am.

There is nothing worse for me as a submissive following my Dom’s rules, than for me to break the rule and for Him to do nothing. Because then i am busting my ass to be His good girl and He either hasn’t noticed or doesn’t care. If i’m busting my ass for the rule, He better be busting His ass for it as well. Don’t give the rule if You’re not going to enforce it.

That’s me. i can’t speak for all submissives or all D/s dynamics. i am not a “bratty” submissive. i hate punishments. i hate misbehaving. There are some D/s dynamics where the submissive will misbehave on purpose in order to receive punishment, and then T/they both enjoy the power play. It’s just not my preference. That doesn’t mean that i don’t enjoy intense sensations, i do, i just prefer to receive them as part of play time vs as part of punishment. And the way You know that about Your submissive is through discussion and negotiation.

It sounds like Y/you have talked with Your submissive and have agreed for You to give her rules. For myself, i function better with one or two new rules at a time. If i am given a long list of rules to follow, just remembering them all can be a challenge, let alone following them. But if Y/you start off with one or two, establish them, play with them, follow and enforce them, then after Y/you have become accustomed to them, add a couple more.

In an LDR, especially a new one, it can be difficult functioning as a D/s relationship when the other isn’t around to see what Y/you are doing. The payoff, for me as a submissive, is my Dom’s investment in me, in O/our relationship. Until that relationship is established and trust is built, the only thing Y/you have to go on is the other persons word.

If Y/you are starting with a lot of rules to be followed when the other person isn’t present for it, like wear this outfit all day long, it’s really hard to follow through when your Dom isn’t going to even know if you’ve done it or not, and you don’t have His feedback throughout the day. But if Y/you start off small, and attach some significance to it, it will be easier for Your submissive to follow. And as You establish Your investment in the rule, it gets easier to invest in for her as well.

Pick out her underthings instead of her outfit, and tell her why you want her to wear it. “Wear a black lace bra and panties today, because even though to the outside world you are a professional, W'we both know what a dirty girl you are.” “Wear pink today because when you get home i’m going to destroy your innocence.” Pick out a piece of jewelry for her to wear, pick out her shoes. Tell her why You want her to wear it and talk about what it means.

Whatever You come up with, have a reason for it, and then check up on it, send her a text a half hour after she has left the house and ask her what colour her underwear are, show her that You are as invested in the rule as she is. And if she has broken the rule, follow through with the consequences Y/you have agreed on. Give her a reason to follow Y/your rule.

If Y/you have both invested in the rule, Y/you have both attached significance to it and it’s outcome, it will not only be easier to follow, but it can also deepen Y/your relationship, offer avenues to explore for both of Y/you and it can be a lot of fun.
That’s my perspective on it, take it with a grain of salt. :)

Saturday, 11 February 2017

Lean on me

I don't really know what makes this picture so attractive to me. She's not leaning on the man, but on to the chair. She is not nude, she's in a pose that is quite modest. I think it's the attention on her face, something fascinates her, and maybe him as well, that we will never know. But I would have my hands not on my trousers if a pretty girl was sitting like that before me.
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